If you’ve ever had a referral source ask whether you handle What Do You Value and felt your answer was technically true but unsatisfying, you’re in the right place. The path from ‘I can do it’ to ‘I’m the person to call’ is more concrete than it looks.
Written for family-law attorneys thinking about how to position around What Do You Value for the next three to five years, not the next quarter.
Practical reality for litigators: What Do You Value work often becomes evidence. Memos written during analysis can show up in depositions; assumptions baked into early analyses get cross-examined. Family-law attorneys handling What Do You Value should write analytical work as if it might be read by opposing counsel — because in contested matters, it often is.
The factors that drive decisions
A reliable decision framework for What Do You Value matters starts with separating the technical questions from the strategic questions. Technical questions (what does the law say, what does the math produce, what does the document indicate) can be answered relatively objectively. Strategic questions (what should the client do given the technical answers, what trade-offs make sense, what risks are acceptable) require professional judgment integrated with the client’s values.
What Do You Value decisions in family-law-adjacent matters depend on a recognizable set of factors. Identifying them early — at intake — produces engagements that proceed efficiently. Missing them produces matters that meander and require rework. The questions that matter most are usually: what is the client’s underlying objective, what factual situation are we working from, what legal framework applies, what are the alternative paths to the objective, and what does each path cost?
Connecting the data to the decision
Working through the analysis benefits from explicit documentation. A spreadsheet that shows the inputs, the calculations, and the conclusions. A memo that walks through the legal framework. A decision tree that maps the options. Practitioners who write down their analysis produce work product they can defend later; those who keep the analysis only in their head produce conclusions that can’t be audited. For deeper reference, see Federal Office of Child Support Enforcement.
The analytical step that most practitioners shortchange is the sensitivity test. What happens to the conclusion if a key assumption changes? If the discount rate is 5% rather than 4%? If the time horizon is 15 years rather than 20? If the asset’s growth rate is half what we assumed? Practitioners who test these variations produce recommendations that hold up under scrutiny.
When to seek additional input
Practitioners who maintain a working network of colleagues across adjacent disciplines have the option to consult quickly when matters touch their boundaries. Practitioners who work in isolation either accept the risk of incomplete analysis or refuse engagements they could have handled with a 30-minute conversation with a peer.
Specific scenarios where additional input is warranted: when the matter involves a non-standard asset class, when the legal framework is genuinely contested or shifting, when the client’s situation has psychological or behavioral dimensions affecting decisions, or when the financial stakes are high relative to the client’s overall picture. In each case, the cost of bringing in a colleague is small compared to the risk of producing work that misses important considerations.
Documenting the reasoning
Documentation of the reasoning behind What Do You Value recommendations matters for three reasons. First, the client may not remember the conversation the same way you do six months later. Second, opposing counsel may challenge the recommendation in deposition or hearing. Third, your own future self handling a similar matter benefits from the prior reasoning if it’s accessible.
The work product that survives scrutiny includes the methodology section. A clear statement of what was done, what sources were reviewed, what assumptions were made, and what conclusions follow. Practitioners who skip this section produce conclusions that opposing experts can attack as opaque; practitioners who include it produce work that withstands challenge effectively.
The practitioners we see succeed in What Do You Value share a few habits: they show up consistently at the same professional events, they invest in templates and infrastructure, they keep peer relationships current, and they treat each matter as a chance to refine their approach.
How VennBoard fits in
VennBoard supports the kind of case-management discipline What Do You Value engagements benefit from: organized case files, integrated communication with co-professionals, deliverable versioning, and the kind of operational consistency that makes the difference between burning out at twenty matters and running a sustainable practice at fifty.
Learn more about how VennBoard fits into a family law attorney practice focused on What Do You Value at VennBoard.com.
Further reading
National Center for State Courts
IRS Publication 504 (Divorced or Separated Individuals)