If you came to Three Must-Dos through a single complex case rather than through deliberate study, you’re in the company of most practitioners who eventually built real expertise in the area. Reverse-engineering depth from a hard case is a common career path.

Written for family-law attorneys considering Three Must-Dos as one of several possible practice directions, with limited time to evaluate which one is worth pursuing.

For family-law attorneys, Three Must-Dos usually shows up in active matters with specific procedural deadlines. The work has to integrate with discovery timelines, motion calendars, and (in litigated matters) trial preparation. Practitioners who carve out time for Three Must-Dos analysis outside the immediate procedural pressure produce better work than those who squeeze it between filings.

The factors that drive decisions

A reliable decision framework for Three Must-Dos matters starts with separating the technical questions from the strategic questions. Technical questions (what does the law say, what does the math produce, what does the document indicate) can be answered relatively objectively. Strategic questions (what should the client do given the technical answers, what trade-offs make sense, what risks are acceptable) require professional judgment integrated with the client’s values.

Practitioners who work through Three Must-Dos decisions systematically — identifying the key facts, the applicable legal standards, the practical options, and the consequences of each — produce client-facing recommendations that hold up over time. Practitioners who rely primarily on intuition produce recommendations that feel right in the moment but fail more often than they should.

How to evaluate the answers

The analytical step that most practitioners shortchange is the sensitivity test. What happens to the conclusion if a key assumption changes? If the discount rate is 5% rather than 4%? If the time horizon is 15 years rather than 20? If the asset’s growth rate is half what we assumed? Practitioners who test these variations produce recommendations that hold up under scrutiny.

Evaluating the answers to Three Must-Dos questions usually involves weighing competing considerations. The legal framework may produce one answer; the financial analysis may produce another; the client’s risk tolerance may produce a third. Practitioners who can hold these multiple frames simultaneously — and articulate the trade-offs — produce better recommendations than those who default to a single frame.

When to bring in other professionals

Most Three Must-Dos matters require some form of multi-professional input. The family law attorney’s analysis is part of a broader picture that includes legal strategy, tax considerations, sometimes mental-health considerations, and often financial planning beyond the immediate engagement. Practitioners who recognize when their analysis has crossed into another professional’s domain produce better integrated recommendations.

Specific scenarios where additional input is warranted: when the matter involves a non-standard asset class, when the legal framework is genuinely contested or shifting, when the client’s situation has psychological or behavioral dimensions affecting decisions, or when the financial stakes are high relative to the client’s overall picture. In each case, the cost of bringing in a colleague is small compared to the risk of producing work that misses important considerations.

What to write down and why

The work product that survives scrutiny includes the methodology section. A clear statement of what was done, what sources were reviewed, what assumptions were made, and what conclusions follow. Practitioners who skip this section produce conclusions that opposing experts can attack as opaque; practitioners who include it produce work that withstands challenge effectively. For deeper reference, see ABA Family Law Section resources.

Practical documentation discipline: every significant analytical choice should appear in writing with a brief explanation of why. Why did we use a 4% discount rate rather than 6%? Why did we structure as alimony rather than property transfer? Why did we recommend mediation rather than direct negotiation? These reasoning notes don’t have to be lengthy; they have to be present.

If you’re considering Three Must-Dos as a focus area and you want one concrete commitment to make: pick the upcoming family-law conference closest to you and commit to attending every year for the next five years.

How VennBoard fits in

Practitioners who handle Three Must-Dos repeatedly find that the back-office infrastructure is the difference between a practice that scales and one that absorbs the practitioner. VennBoard provides the structured workspace that lets you focus on the substantive work — the part that actually compounds.

Learn more about how VennBoard fits into a family law attorney practice focused on Three Must-Dos at VennBoard.com.

Further reading

Federal Office of Child Support Enforcement

IRS Publication 504 (Divorced or Separated Individuals)

ABA Family Law Section resources

National Center for State Courts

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