First Things First sits in the strange space between technique and judgment. A junior attorney with good technique and no judgment will miss it; a senior attorney with great judgment and rusty technique will get half of it right. The best practitioners keep both sharp.
Intended for guardians ad litem comparing their current approach to First Things First with what experienced practitioners in the area actually do.
For guardians ad litem, First Things First affects the child’s best interests in ways that need to be surfaced for the court. The GAL’s role is to evaluate the impact on the child and articulate findings in a way the court can use, not to make decisions about the underlying First Things First questions. Effective GAL reports keep this distinction clear.
The standard approach
Standard First Things First practice has become well-defined enough that CLE programs, professional standards bodies, and practitioner texts all describe roughly the same workflow. The substantive details vary by jurisdiction and matter, but the structural pattern is consistent across most practitioners doing the work.
The recognized standard for First Things First engagements involves five identifiable phases: intake, scoping, analytical work, deliverable production, and closing. Most guardians ad litem who have handled the work for several years would describe their process in these terms, even when they don’t use the same labels.
The gaps in standard approach
The standard approach also fails when the practitioner doesn’t actually do First Things First regularly. Practitioners handling one matter every two years can’t maintain the working depth that produces good First Things First outcomes. The standard approach assumes the practitioner has internalized it through repetition; when that’s not true, the standard becomes a checklist that produces checklist-quality work. For deeper reference, see ABA Family Law Section resources.
The standard approach to First Things First fails in identifiable ways. The first is when the matter has unusual structural features (multi-state, international, business-owner with complex compensation) that the standard workflow doesn’t accommodate well. The second is when the parties have unusual dynamics (high conflict, significant power imbalance, financial abuse) that the standard intake doesn’t surface. The third is when the substantive area has been changing recently and the standard analytical methods haven’t caught up.
Alternative approaches worth considering
Alternative approaches that work better in specific contexts: tiered engagement structures (separate diagnostic, analytical, and closing engagements with separate fees) for high-uncertainty matters; collaborative engagement structures (multiple guardians ad litem working as a team) for unusually complex matters; phased engagement structures (initial consultation followed by deferred full engagement) for clients who aren’t yet ready to commit to full scope.
Experienced guardians ad litem working in First Things First routinely depart from the standard approach in specific ways. They invest more in the intake than the standard contemplates — sometimes 90 minutes or more — because the early diagnostic shapes everything downstream. They produce more interim communication with clients and co-professionals because long matters drift without it. They review their analytical work with peers before delivering, because solo work product has blind spots.
Matching the approach to the specific case
The skill that develops over years isn’t memorizing more approaches — it’s recognizing matter type quickly and selecting the right one. This pattern-recognition can’t be taught directly; it accumulates from handling matters repeatedly and debriefing what worked and what didn’t.
A practical decision framework: standard approach for matters within the typical range; alternative approaches for matters with specific identifiable variations; new structures for matters that don’t fit any prior pattern. Practitioners who can recognize which category they’re in at intake produce better engagements than those who run the same workflow regardless of matter type.
The practitioners we see succeed in First Things First share a few habits: they show up consistently at the same professional events, they invest in templates and infrastructure, they keep peer relationships current, and they treat each matter as a chance to refine their approach.
How VennBoard fits in
Practitioners who handle First Things First repeatedly find that the back-office infrastructure is the difference between a practice that scales and one that absorbs the practitioner. VennBoard provides the structured workspace that lets you focus on the substantive work — the part that actually compounds.
For guardians ad litem ready to see how VennBoard supports First Things First engagements, visit VennBoard.com.
Further reading
Federal Office of Child Support Enforcement
ABA Family Law Section resources