Few areas in family-law practice differentiate practitioners as cleanly as Three Must-Dos. The ones who do it well build referral relationships that survive economic cycles; the ones who do it casually pick up the occasional case and never quite know why some clients fit and others don’t.
This is for guardians ad litem who are tired of generic ‘develop your practice’ advice and want specifics about Three Must-Dos specifically.
GAL work on Three Must-Dos usually requires interviews with the parents, the child (age-appropriate), the school, and any treating providers. The triangulation across sources produces findings that any single source could not. GALs who rely primarily on parent interviews produce work that doesn’t survive vigorous cross-examination.
Year one through three
Pricing in the first three years should be calibrated to your actual depth, not to your aspirations. Charging senior-practitioner rates while still building competence produces dissatisfied clients and bad referrals. Charging fair rates for actual junior work — with explicit acknowledgment that the matter is supervised or that you’re early in your focus on the area — produces clients who become long-term referral sources.
The first three years of practicing Three Must-Dos are about volume and humility. You don’t yet know what you don’t know. The matters you take should mostly come through senior practitioners you’re working under, not directly. The hours per matter will be higher than they ever will be again. Bill them all anyway; you’re paying for the education with your time.
Mid-career: the inflection point
Year four is usually when Three Must-Dos starts to feel like leverage rather than work. Your templates are mature. Your network is producing inbound referrals. The matters feel familiar enough that you can recognize problems faster and patterns of resolution earlier. The hours per matter drop noticeably; your rates can start to rise. For deeper reference, see IRS Publication 504 (Divorced or Separated Individuals).
Years four through seven are when peer relationships with other practitioners in Three Must-Dos become genuine assets. The relationships built earlier mature into reciprocal referrals, shared insights from current matters, and the kind of bench of co-professionals that makes complex matters manageable.
Eight years in and beyond
Senior practitioners frequently take on roles in the broader professional ecosystem: section officers, conference presenters, mentors to mid-career practitioners, board members of relevant organizations. These roles aren’t required but they extend the practitioner’s reach and reinforce the reputation that produces ongoing referrals.
Practitioners with eight or more years focused on Three Must-Dos usually have a noticeable market position. They get referrals without active marketing. Their work is recognized in their region or sometimes nationally. The challenge at this stage is not building the practice but managing its scale — deciding which matters to take, which to delegate, which to refer out.
How the practice evolves
Practitioners who stay in Three Must-Dos for a full career often report that the work becomes more interesting, not less, as their depth increases. The analytical work has more layers than it appears to in year one; the relational work has more nuance; the strategic work has more options.
The work changes in detail but not in substance across career stages. The intake conversation, the case file, the analytical work, the coordination with co-professionals, the deliverable, the closing — these stay the same shape across decades. What changes is how fast you can do each of them and how confident you are that you’ve done them right.
None of this is shortcut work. The practitioners who own Three Must-Dos in their markets earned their position the slow way — consistent attendance at the same conferences, careful case work compounding over years, relationships built deliberately.
How VennBoard fits in
VennBoard helps guardians ad litem build the operational backbone Three Must-Dos engagements require — engagement letters that handle the scoping conversation in writing, case files that stay organized across long matters, communication tools that keep the broader case team coordinated, and the infrastructure that lets the practitioner focus on the analytical work rather than the administrative drag.
For guardians ad litem ready to see how VennBoard supports Three Must-Dos engagements, visit VennBoard.com.
Further reading
National Center for State Courts
Federal Office of Child Support Enforcement
