The published guidance on Three Must-Dos runs from too-general marketing summaries to too-specific technical papers, with very little in between. This piece aims for the middle: enough specificity to be useful, enough breadth to be applicable.
Intended for guardians ad litem comparing their current approach to Three Must-Dos with what experienced practitioners in the area actually do.
GAL work on Three Must-Dos usually requires interviews with the parents, the child (age-appropriate), the school, and any treating providers. The triangulation across sources produces findings that any single source could not. GALs who rely primarily on parent interviews produce work that doesn’t survive vigorous cross-examination.
Years 1-3: building the base
The first three years of practicing Three Must-Dos are about volume and humility. You don’t yet know what you don’t know. The matters you take should mostly come through senior practitioners you’re working under, not directly. The hours per matter will be higher than they ever will be again. Bill them all anyway; you’re paying for the education with your time.
Pricing in the first three years should be calibrated to your actual depth, not to your aspirations. Charging senior-practitioner rates while still building competence produces dissatisfied clients and bad referrals. Charging fair rates for actual junior work — with explicit acknowledgment that the matter is supervised or that you’re early in your focus on the area — produces clients who become long-term referral sources.
Mid-career: the inflection point
Pricing power increases meaningfully in this stage. Practitioners who have established a track record can charge specialist rates because the work is demonstrably specialist. The transition from generalist to specialist rates is often the single largest income increase of a guardian ad litem’s career; practitioners who hesitate to make it leave significant money on the table.
Years four through seven are when peer relationships with other practitioners in Three Must-Dos become genuine assets. The relationships built earlier mature into reciprocal referrals, shared insights from current matters, and the kind of bench of co-professionals that makes complex matters manageable.
Eight years in and beyond
By year ten or twelve, the question shifts from ‘how do I build the practice’ to ‘how do I keep it sharp.’ Continued CLE engagement, continued reading, continued contact with the work — not just managing others doing the work — matters. Senior practitioners who let their hands-on depth atrophy find their effective expertise narrows even as their reputation grows.
Senior practitioners frequently take on roles in the broader professional ecosystem: section officers, conference presenters, mentors to mid-career practitioners, board members of relevant organizations. These roles aren’t required but they extend the practitioner’s reach and reinforce the reputation that produces ongoing referrals.
What stays the same and what shifts
The work changes in detail but not in substance across career stages. The intake conversation, the case file, the analytical work, the coordination with co-professionals, the deliverable, the closing — these stay the same shape across decades. What changes is how fast you can do each of them and how confident you are that you’ve done them right.
Practitioners who stay in Three Must-Dos for a full career often report that the work becomes more interesting, not less, as their depth increases. The analytical work has more layers than it appears to in year one; the relational work has more nuance; the strategic work has more options. For deeper reference, see IRS Publication 504 (Divorced or Separated Individuals).
If you’re considering Three Must-Dos as a focus area and you want one concrete commitment to make: pick the upcoming family-law conference closest to you and commit to attending every year for the next five years.
How VennBoard fits in
VennBoard helps guardians ad litem build the operational backbone Three Must-Dos engagements require — engagement letters that handle the scoping conversation in writing, case files that stay organized across long matters, communication tools that keep the broader case team coordinated, and the infrastructure that lets the practitioner focus on the analytical work rather than the administrative drag.
For guardians ad litem ready to see how VennBoard supports Three Must-Dos engagements, visit VennBoard.com.
Further reading
National Center for State Courts
ABA Family Law Section resources