Following the Platinum Rule in Practice is one of those areas where the practitioners who actually do the work are usually too busy to write about it, and the ones who write about it tend to do less of it. This piece tries to split the difference.
This piece is for divorce financial coaches who already have the basics and are deciding whether to make Following the Platinum Rule in Practice a focus area.
The economics of Following the Platinum Rule in Practice engagements for divorce financial coaches usually favor flat-fee or tiered-fee structures over hourly billing. The work is well-defined enough to scope cleanly, and clients usually prefer predictable costs. Coaches who develop reliable scoping templates can produce consistent margins where hourly-billed coaches absorb variable amounts of scope creep.
What people don’t know going in
Many clients come to Following the Platinum Rule in Practice matters expecting binary answers (yes or no, this number or that number). The reality is usually ranges, probability-weighted scenarios, and contingent recommendations. Helping the client adjust to that reality at intake — rather than at the deliverable — produces a better engagement.
The single most common question clients ask in their first Following the Platinum Rule in Practice call is some version of ‘how long will this take?’ The honest answer is usually between three and eight months — but with hard variability based on the responsiveness of opposing parties, third-party document custodians, and (in litigated matters) the court calendar. Practitioners who give clients a range with specific factors that could lengthen or shorten it produce more realistic expectations than those who quote a single number.
What experienced colleagues say new practitioners miss
Many divorce financial coaches undervalue their work in Following the Platinum Rule in Practice matters because they’re comparing their hours to their general practice rather than to other specialists in the area. The right comparison is to others doing the same work, not to your past general practice. Practitioners who recalibrate their pricing against the right peer group price their work appropriately.
Practitioners new to Following the Platinum Rule in Practice often underestimate how much of the work is communication rather than analysis. The analytical conclusions matter, but the way they’re presented to the client, the attorney, and (if relevant) the court determines whether the work produces the outcome the client wanted. Polishing the report and the explanation is a substantial portion of the engagement.
What’s different now from five years ago
Working remotely with co-professionals on Following the Platinum Rule in Practice matters has become routine since 2020. Most divorce financial coaches now run substantial portions of their engagements through video conferences with clients in other cities, secure document exchanges, and coordinated calls across multiple professionals. The infrastructure for distributed case management has matured.
Following the Platinum Rule in Practice has shifted in three meaningful ways over the past five to seven years. First, the volume of data available in most matters has grown dramatically — bank, brokerage, retirement, and credit records are routinely available in electronic form, which both enables deeper analysis and creates more work to organize. Second, the regulatory and tax environment has shifted (most notably the 2019 federal alimony tax change for divorces). Third, the client population has become more sophisticated; clients increasingly come to Following the Platinum Rule in Practice matters having done meaningful online research.
What to do if you’re considering Following the Platinum Rule in Practice as a focus
Considering Following the Platinum Rule in Practice as a focus area is a five-year decision, not a one-year decision. Practitioners who commit to a year and then evaluate usually conclude the area isn’t producing returns — because year one almost never does. The decision is really about whether you’re willing to invest the next five years.
Honest assessment of your market matters too. Following the Platinum Rule in Practice has different dynamics in different markets — major metros with concentrated family-law sections versus smaller markets with broader generalist practices. Practitioners in markets where the area is underserved by genuine specialists have steeper paths to dominance; practitioners in markets already saturated have harder paths. For deeper reference, see ABA Law Practice Division.
Practitioners who want to make Following the Platinum Rule in Practice a meaningful part of their work should commit to the long timeline. The first year produces little visible return. The third year shifts. By year five, the work and the referrals look noticeably different.
How VennBoard fits in
VennBoard supports the kind of case-management discipline Following the Platinum Rule in Practice engagements benefit from: organized case files, integrated communication with co-professionals, deliverable versioning, and the kind of operational consistency that makes the difference between burning out at twenty matters and running a sustainable practice at fifty.
Practitioners interested in seeing VennBoard’s case-management infrastructure for Following the Platinum Rule in Practice work can learn more at VennBoard.com.